I just realized my last post was in July. I’ve been terribly busy, and I’ve found that when things do decide to happen in my life they happen all at once in a mad rush. I have good news though, after two years I’ve finally secured full time employment. It’s not a position that will make me rich, however it’s Monday – Friday, and I have health insurance again. It also gave me a confidence boost I needed very much. Ever since I left my ex husband I’ve been plagued by doubt, doubt that I lacked the ability to care for myself and that I could ever be successful at anything. So on that front things are better.
On other fronts….Eid al Adha came and went this year without me knowing. With that realization I realized that my break with Islam was finally complete, it was odd really, a friend messaged me an Eid Mubarak, and then it dawned on me what day it must be. I momentarily fell into a short panic, wondering if I should mention it to my children, as they have no idea that I am no longer Muslim. I mentioned it quickly in passing and told them I’d give them a bit of Eid money once I went to the bank. I kept it casual and hoped they wouldn’t notice. The children have no idea about my break with Islam and my return to paganism. I suppose I’ll keep it quiet until they reach their teen years, part of me fears their father finding out and what he might do if he does. Being Pagan is about the most horrible thing you can be in Islam. The Quran is full of admonitions against worshipping other gods beside Allah. Part of me fears he would challenge our current custody arrangement if he found out, or may even try to kidnap the children.
In retrospect it really bothers me that Muslims believe that the only viable moral code is Islam. All other beliefs are suspect and prone to immorality. I was thinking about this recently, and after forgetting about Eid Al Adha, I started thinking about the Hajj, and what the Arabs believed before Muhammad’s prophethood. Muslims are really big on telling Christians that their religion is corrupted by pagan belief, but ignore the pagan leftovers in Hajj. Arabs were doing Hajj to honor various pagan deities long before Muhammad popped up. If you read between the lines, even the Quran acknowledges the Hajj has pagan origins. The circling of the Kaaba, running between Safa and Marwa, and the kissing of the Black Stone were previously done in honor of the old Arab gods/goddesses. It seems they kept the customs and changed some of the names. According to Tradition, even Omar had reservations about kissing the Black Stone due to its pagan connotations, but continued after seeing Muhammad do it. Even if buy into the idea that Abraham had initially built the Kaaba as a house of worship for the one God, there is very little evidence that Abraham ever did so, or was present in Arabia at all. It’s all a historical revision that Muslims really don’t question, and any discourse questioning it is qucikly squashed. Even when I was trying to be a devout Muslim, Hajj never added up to me, and the rituals never could make sense to me within an Islamic framework. It all felt like so much gobbledegook. I want to continue in this thread in my next post, where I’ll get into the Daughters of Allah/the Satanic Verses and how they may relate to Hajj as well. Hopefully it will be in the next couple of days instead of months….